I read a book once about love languages and mine is definitely "quality time". Maybe it's because I am a middle child...I have read a lot of books about birth order, and middle children often feel left out and/or tend to think that no one REALLY thinks they're worth while or wants to spend time with them. I remember older siblings trying to "lose"me so that they could spend time with the younger ones. The younger ones always wanted to be with the older ones. Now that I'm a mom I can see why this would be: younger children are more cute and older kids are more interesting and that leaves the middle child trying way too hard and just ending up annoying.
But I digress... I am just trying to say that I feel super loved and super lucky that four of my siblings have come to visit this year. First Katie with her husband Steve and eight kids at Easter, then Matt and Kelley and their kids on Father's Day, then Nathan and Leslie and their kids on the Fourth of July - I haven't added pictures of that visit yet so here they are!l-r: Elijah, Leslie, Nathan, Abram, Shawn and Kami:
It was so great to get to visit with Nathan and Leslie and for our kids to get reacquainted! After staying for a couple of nights, the Kerns family left after the parade. The rest of us napped for a couple of hours and then Shawn took all the kids but Abram (who was sleeping) to the water park while I stayed home and made a yummy fourth of July dinner - Potato salad, hamburgers, etc. Later we set out to watch fireworks at the rodeo grounds, but ended up arriving just as they were ending:(
Now Eli is here to visit for as long as he can before he has to go back. No, I am not one of those people that dreads having visitors. I love every second of it, even if I start feeling really exhausted. And boy have all of these visitors helped this pregnancy speed along!
I wish I could make it five! I hope you know I love you even if I don't make it there this year!
ReplyDeleteYou are giving the rest of us a real guilt trip with this one:) If a trip manages to get into the budget it would be so fun to head your way but you might not be appreciating it as much the closer you get to your D-Day --but I do understand how nice distractions are too! Anyway, quality time or not, I do love you! I bet Eli is having so much fun there! Heidi
ReplyDeleteI hear ya about the middle child thing. I wish we could have more visitors too but we are out of the way the other direction from you. We had lots of fun with you guys. By the way I really don't like the picture you posted of me.
ReplyDeleteNo guilt trips intended!! And sorry you didn't like the picture, Leslie...do you have one with you in it from your visit? I will switch it:)
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